take it or leave it...

i find it really funny how relationships work... i say funny because i believe that you can only either laugh or you cry when you get hurt.

i truly think that i have a hidden talent for setting myself up for a huge fall and being hurt by people that come and go in my life. it is never something intentional that i do, however whenever feelings are involved, weather they are good or bad, someone is bound to cop it!

i don't want to sound like a victim here at all, because we all know that i can not stand whingers!

i find that i get hurt just as much by honesty as i do lies. the difference is that i totally APPRECIATE & RESPECT honesty even though it can sometimes be a bitter pill to swallow.

i love giving advice to mates and helping them out where i can, but i do need to learn when to pull back at times.

just like all of us, i'm always good at giving advice, rarely good at taking it... that's my highly attractive stubborn side showing!

too often the advice that i give (and most often receive too) is SO FRIKKING OBVIOUS, however actually following or adapting to this advice can be the hardest thing to do... i've learnt this the hard way recently, but such is life!

i found this quote, which i think is amazingly true

Advice is what we ask for when we already know the answer but wish we didn't.

another quote that is very relevant is...

Don't take advice from people with missing fingers.

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